Try to answer in clear and easy to understand terms. Before responding to a question with a complex answer, ask the child what they mean. Often times, they may want to know where they were born. If a child asks, "How does the baby get inside," a simple answer that it grows inside the Mummy may be enough.

As children reach fourth and fifth grade, they or their friends may be starting to mature. Children who are entering puberty have many questions regarding the physical and emotional changes that happen while growing up.

It is not always easy for parents to discuss sexual issues with their children. However, if children cannot learn the facts from their parents or another responsible adult, they may rely on other less credible sources for this information. If a child does not begin to ask questions by this age, it is up to the parent to bring up the subject.

There are many books at stores and libraries that can help parents learn how to talk with a child about sex. It is a good idea to talk with children before they get their first menstrual period or wet dream, so they will know that these events are normal.

Sometimes parents worry that if they talk about sex with teens that it will encourage them to have sex. This is not true. Teens have many questions, and need the facts. They also need their parents' advice on family values about teens and sex. Today, with the serious consequences of teenage pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, it is more important than ever to have these talks.

It's OK to feel nervous about this topic. Our parents may not have given us much information about sex when we were kids. Relax, take a deep breath, and admit your embarrassment. Show your child that you will overcome that embarrassment because it is important.

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