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Rape is sexual intercourse that is performed without consent and done mainly by force or deception. Acquaintance rape, also known as "date rape," is performed by someone you know, such as a casual acquaintance or new date. Anyone can be raped. Isolation and vulnerability increase your chance of being raped.
FOLLOW THESE PRECAUTIONS TO AVOID A POTENTIAL RAPE OR OTHER SEXUAL ASSAULT SITUATION: - take time and use public places to get to know your companion or "date"
- stay with a group of people
- tell someone you trust your date's name, destination, and planned time of return
- take money for a phone call and taxi fare with you
- avoid people who show controlling behaviour, or are physically and verbally abusive
- avoid people who verbally and emotionally manipulate you
- learn to trust your "gut" feelings
- avoid risky areas, such as deserted areas
- take a self-defence course
- carry a loud whistle and use it to attract attention when in danger and
- avoid excessive alcohol
Be alert for possible use of "date rape drugs," such as Rohypnol. Someone can slip it into a drink. The capsule form of this drug has been takn off the market to reduce this risk. It causes drowsiness, a loss of coordination, dizziness, and memory loss. IF YOU ARE RAPED: - contact the police or a rape crisis centre
- go to an emergency room for an examination, treatment for any injuries, and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases or pregnancy
- do NOT shower, bathe, or change clothes before undergoing a physical examination
- have a nurse or rape crisis counsellor present for support during the physical examination and evidence collection procedure and
- get counselling from a professional who specialises in helping victims recover from rape
Medical facts will be taken during the physical examination that can be used in criminal charges against the rapist. Remember, rape is not the victim's fault. Rape victims experience a multitude of feelings including confusion, shame, anger, and fear. For more information, help, and counselling, call the Rape Crisis Line. Article #7167 Copyright (c) 2002 McKesson. All Rights Reserved. |