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Violence against women is common and may include many unacceptable behaviours. Mental, physical, and sexual abuse are far too common. One in four women will be abused in their lifetime. These acts may range from simple verbal abuse to life threatening acts. All ages, religions, and classes are involved. A man may give many reasons for abuse, such as alcohol use or abuse as a child. All are unacceptable.
It's difficult to know who will become an abuser. Abuse often escalates in frequency and severity over time. This cycle must be stopped, because without help, the abuse will continue. There are no typical victims. Women at increased risk include: - the young and unmarried
- users of drugs or alcohol
- pregnant women, especially those pregnant before marriage
- married teenagers and
- the previously-abused child or adult
When you are involved in an abusive relationship, you may feel confused. It is common to feel both love and fear. You may feel you are at fault or the abuse was deserved. No abuse is acceptable or deserved. If you have a concern for your safety, get help. There are friends, family, religious counsellors, and doctors who will listen and help. You may need their support to face this problem. Group and individual counselling, legal, and social services are available in most communities. If you are staying in, or returning to an unsafe house, an emergency plan can be made for a quick escape. THE EMERGENCY PLAN SHOULD INCLUDE: - a way to leave
- addresses of emergency safe houses
- personal identification and money in a safe place
- clothing and toys for your children and
- important phone numbers, including domestic violence hotlines and 000 for emergencies
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